Ending a Friendship Part 2

So after my ex-friend wrote me that letter that was intended to hurt me, I thought about everything for a little bit. I had taken the high road, but I then sent a second response refuting his statements. Correspondences are below. Enjoy!

Sarah El-Edlibi
10:21am November 21st
david listen, you should forgo the under 21 people. i know it sounds fucked up and you probably have a lot of friends, but you're 21 now which is the entire point. you have to leave those people behind because no place that's dressy is gonna allow those people in

David Cox
2:28am November 26th
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So, I have to say that I didn't appreciate you saying that about my friends who were 20, especially since my gf is 20 as well. I could never leave those people behind because they are the people who helped me make it to this point.
I haven't said this before, but i am going to say this now: You can be extremely inconsiderate sometimes. There are times when you are justified in your actions (Kevin/alcohol incident), but otherwise you take things to an unnecessary level when it comes to drama and insults and I don't want to be apart of it anymore. You have really hurt some feelings since i've known you and you really don't care and that's sad on your part.
Even with things like my facebook and my wall posts, I defended you from my gf, thinking that Sara isn't doing this on purpose, we are just mad close. I asked you to cool it down so that you don't encroach on my gf. I was immature about it then, but now I see that you never respected my wishes and kept adding fuel to the fire, almost causing me to break up the single best thing that I have in my life.
Look, i appreciate all the good constructive convos and stuff that we were able to share when we were at Apple and so on, but that ends now. I'd rather not have you post on my wall or disrespect my gf in any way anymore. I will tell you now too that you would get the cold shoulder from both me and her if you came to my party, so i don't suggest that you come to that either.
You are confident to the point of over confidence and being a bitch on purpose. I am 21, and the whole point of this party was to stay away from things like that: drama. You seem to always bring it. There are people that you know that feel the same way, some less than me, others more, but i am not speaking for them. I have stayed silent for too long. It's done. We aren't friends anymore.

Sarah El-Edlibi
5:27am November 26th
first, i didn't mean to insult you by saying not to bring people under 21. i thought your gf was in spain for your birthday, nor did i know her age. the only reason i said it was because i recently planned a birthday for my friend joey, and it got really hard to find a nice place to bring everyone, and we had to end up dropping people under 21. this may not be your choice and i respect it.
second, i respect what you say and embrace it. this will always serve as constructive criticism for me. i only wish you could have said it to me when we were friends, seeing as how it is only fair, as a friend, to respect another friend by relaying flaws and habits that would improve the friend. i see now that this was obviously a one-way street in which i told you but you told me nothing.
third, contrary to popular belief, i do wish the best for you and your girlfriend. that drama happened almost a year ago, and i never did it again, nor did i wish to begin it again. i know she makes you happy. i hope you guys do well in your relationship.
fourth, if i had come to your party, i had no intention of being dramatic or anything of that sort. i just wanted to celebrate you.
fifth, if you don't wish to be friends anymore, it's all good. thanks for everything.

Sarah El-Edlibi
Today at 8:25am
you know, i felt like i needed a day or so to gauge the entire situation and what i thought of it. i showed it to some people, mulled over it, since i needed some perspective, you know? and i came to a conclusion.

You and your girlfriend are fucking deluded.

I'm sure you won't show this to your girlfriend since I'll put you on blast. The incident that happened last year was ridiculous, both because she cried about it and because you didn't defend her to us. You obviously didn't know how to be a boyfriend, and she didn't know how to be a girlfriend, so it ended up being funny to all of us. Not to mention that you're a straight-up pussy for not being able to tell either me or her to our faces what you needed to say. You also attempted to hurt me, which did not happen, I was only confused. You are EXTREMELY inappropriate for sending a letter to me of this kind without conversation for over two months. You obviously weren't my friend for two reasons: one, you didn't talk to me for a very long time. Two, if you felt this way, you didn't tell me. THIS MAKES YOU A BULLSHIT FRIEND. I feel like this letter was written as a suggestion from your girlfriend so that I don't show up to your party in order to avoid confrontation. David, give me a little more credit than that. I have always asked to meet her to at least show her that I'm not trying to steal her boyfriend. Instead you created tension between us, but I guess that's a lesson you learned for your next girlfriend. I also am in utter disbelief at your choice to disband a friendship over something that is almost trivial now in your relationship and happened a long time ago. But maybe it isn't trivial now, I'm sure your girlfriend is still giving you shit about this and the fact that you were still my friend. But I am even more positive that she would be hurt by other things you've done, such as that conversation we had on AIM in which you thought I was another Sarah and told me that you had a major crush and would have possibly had a fling with her WHILE dating your girlfriend. And also that night when we went to Steve's house from Limerick's and you were drunk and I was basically rubbing up on your dick. As I said before, I'm positive this won't reach her. Perhaps I'll send her a copy. I dunno, I'll think about that one. Anyway, the letter you wrote was a really shitty and crazy idea, and if you show your letter and explain the circumstances, you should get reactions that are not in favor of you. Not to mention that everyone over 21 agreed with my suggestion, and the only reason I gave it to you was because I actually tried to help you. You will realize in a couple of days that it will be difficult to have a party with teenagers, and you will realize in a couple of years that you are the only wack person to celebrate your birthday with teenagers. The latter I did not have in mind at the time of my suggestion, nor your girlfriend's age, so I suppose you'll have to trust me on that. Or don't. Because at the end of the day, there are realities to the situation that you can't see. I know when you fall in love your guard is let down. But your guard is way down and you are acting crazy and mean, traits unlike you, which is sad on your part. Enjoy your day.